Sitemap - 2021 - Self Made

65 // Tending the inner flame ❤️‍🔥

Embrace mediocrity.

64 // Unmerry.

What is needed?

63 // So. Much. Frozen. Pizza.

Your wildest dreams (yeah: you)

62 // Mic-drop Friday

Do you want to be perfect or do you want to be free?

61 // Other People's Drinking

Part 2: How to Have Boundaries With Other Humans

60 // Tips for SOBER holiday party fun

Interlude

59 // You don't owe anyone an explanation

Part 1: How to have boundaries with yourself

58 // How to have a say this holiday season

How to not make decisions

A reluctant foray into fun 🙄

Darkness and illumination ✨

56 // Happy Halloween (+ a tiny rant)

Announcing my retirement

Redwood epiphanies + spontaneous healing

55 // A 3½ hour drive to love

Fierce care

54 // And the raffle winner is...

Comfort zones + growth edges

53 // Experiment announcement (+ still time to enter the raffle!)

"Stumbling is a sign of momentum" - Steve

52// Swimming in The Deeper Blue

How to find sober friends

51 // All I want for my soberversary...is a favor

Four years free

50 // Rest + attention culls

Life or death times

49 // Chaos + Creativity

A liberation mindset

A San Francisco jubilee

48 // Too much fun looks like...

Will you be my emergency contact?

47 // What...is...fun...?

How to keep going.

46 // Protecting your inner wisdom

Against urgency

Clear sight and deep work.

45 // Come write with me tomorrow.

On relinquishing control

On misplaced longing

44 // Stubborn self-care

White Claw bummer

43 // Life paths open to you

I have plenty of time

42 // New thoughts -> new life

Discomfort means it's working

41 // Today I'm flying low

The Best Part

40 // Beginner's Mind

Stop micromanaging your life

I am the cake

out of the woodwork

39 // slow motion sober going on hiatus

how to stay put

38 // i have plenty of time

"...an existential bandaid, a suture for the cosmic wound."

37 // unexpected joy + incidental recommendations

announcement and celebration!

36 // "the margins are the great generative space"

fault lines and mindfucks

35 // life being life-y

coming in too hot

34 // none of us are free until you are.

rollercoasters, onions, and 7-layer cake

33 // from superstition to reclamation

great horned owls and happy birthday to me.

31 // the anniversary nobody wants

"I’m only just starting to talk sense to the bullshit I’ve been feeding myself my entire life."

30 // slowly, then all at once.

big muscles

29 // texas vs. mars

daffodils + post traumatic growth

28 // couches + birdsong

how to stay whole

27 // your mind is more fit than it’s ever been

oh, how i ache for you

26 // tell me your gut-punch songs

how to live (how to keep living)

25 // brain space, sweetness, and the Bern-dog

is it safe to fall apart yet?

24 // a most awkward dance. you're invited.

this grand and terrible waking up

23 // let’s slow down.

no one knows better than you

22 // let your weight down